Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Wednesday, June 20

Beach day!! Woo woo!  It started out foggy and cool, darn it! But by the time we were heading to the school bus, at 9 am, for the ride to the beach, the sun was making a valiant effort to appear.  And overall, I’d say the event was a success.  We took 17 children and 13 adults with us, filling the bus!  Mothers and nannies were chaperones, plus the school nurse and Maggie (who intended to get us there and then walk back to school, but who never did actually leave!).  Tide was going out, which I planned, and that meant lots of wet sand in which to dig.  The tide goes out quickly at this shallow beach, so the water moved away from our original campsite, but it didn’t seem to bother the children who eagerly ran down to the water’s edge no matter how far away it was. 


A part of our big beach-going group!
What I didn’t plan on was 1. The green algae covering lots of the beach (more on that later) and 2. The nannies, who weren’t that eager to cross the algae or to get to the water!  So some children spent most of the time high on the dry sand, digging futilely in sand that kept slipping back into the hole.  One nanny fed her boy (adorable but ‘fat’) constantly in that hour on the sand, this after we had fed them all a snack at 9:30!  The nanny role in China is unique!  To their credit, of course, some nannies went right down with their darlings to the sea, gingerly getting feet wet.

The very green beach!

Some the the dry sand players
Brave nannies, down at the water's edge

We drove from the school—oh yeah, the 15 minute walk from the school to the beach was scotched, out of concern that it might be too strenuous for the children—to the beach, stopping first at the courtyard of a restaurant owned by the family of one of the children.  There, the children were given a snack of fresh made yoghurt and cookies; it was so nice!  The courtyard was lovely, a great place to eat a summer dinner (everyone whispered that the Café Roland is expensive).  The only downside was the time spent fussing about washing the children’s hands before the snack.  We had just left the school and ridden on the bus—where did they get dirty?  I had thought the plan to give them snack before hitting the beach took care of any worries about dirt.  Silly me.  You can’t overestimate the Chinese parent/teacher’s concern about germs:  the children wash 50 times a day, and wear numerous layers of clothes, and work in a classroom with closed windows more often than not, all because of this huge worry about germs.  So we came close to dragging to a halt and losing our happy momentum on the need to 1. Wash and 2. Feed them (remember, we were gone for 2 hours, and returning in time for lunch).  Luckily, we got back in gear faster than expected.

Part of our group, heading towards the cafe

So many chaperones for this group of children!

Settling in for our snack

A peek at the lovely courtyard, as we prepare to head for the beach

So, the beach was covered with the green algae that has been featured in recent posts.  I’d say that the military boats in the harbor for the last two days are in fact connected—they are helping to move the algae away.  So are the big construction machines on the beach, and the workers we saw there too.  The bulldozer pushed piles of algae around the beach the whole time we were there.  It was fascinating!   The children were, generally, unconcerned about it; the adults were a little more finicky.  Sabrina, on the other hand, went right down to the water’s edge, allowed some children to take her into the water, and then to explore the bared rocks for sea stars.  She seemed to enjoy the experience.  Mia also shepherded a group down to the water—look how happy she looks.  Mia is happy when the children are happy.

Workers clearing away algae

The construction equipment, doing it's cleaning work, too!


Sabrina heading towards the water with some of the children

Mia happily negotiating the algae with another group of children

Julia and Jessica jumping past algae - no concern there!
And  the children were happy--laughed, and ran, and dug, and splashed, and collected shells, and fell over in the water getting their clothes soaking wet!   I picked that one up, getting my camera slightly wet and my clothes pretty wet too.  That was not so nice at about 2 pm, when my damp clothes smelled not so sweet!  Still, it was fun if hectic—we tried to squeeze a lot in, given that there is so much procedure to perform—every child had to be brushed off and desanded before getting back on the bus, which again added a bit to the process and time!  We are supposed to go again next Tuesday, but I suspect that we will make a change of plans—from the adult perspective, this trip may have taken a lot out of people!






Julia’s friend Jessica came too, which made the time fun for Julia.  They ran and jumped and played a lot, took full advantage of the beach in ways the Chinese parents weren’t prepared to accept (of course, their children are a lot younger).  Jessica’s enthusiasm helped Julia overcome a sudden fear that there might be crabs and/or jellyfish in the sea.  For one mad moment I thought she was going to decline to go in, wasting a great play opportunity.  But in fact, she has become a good playmate (since her preschool years, when that was not her strength!) and she couldn’t resist Jessica’s total enjoyment of the waves.



One funny occurrence was that several of the nannies asked me my age.  They were suitably and simultaneously shocked and amazed when I said 52—shocked that I am that old and amazed that I am so energetic, to use their word.  It happened three different times, this question!  I should take that as mostly a compliment to my ‘energy.’ 

The day concluded, after early and long naps, with 7 rounds of musical chairs, much to Julia’s pleasure.  We then vacated the room so that Mia could get it cleaned and get out of there (she was tired from a very early rising, and Sabrina appeared to have some food borne illness, so they were both shot), and Julia began (and later finished) reading Henry and Mudge and the Happy Cat to me.  As soon as we got home, we showered, and then felt much more human.  At 5 pm, we went out for some exercise—first using the leg swings then going to the hill for some scootering.  While I took my camera, somehow the photos didn’t make it back (?? Did I possibly leave the card in the computer? I have no idea what happened).  It’s too bad, because I took some photos of the cutest kids! Who were intently chatting me up about my ‘favorites’—practicing their English, which was pretty good, considering they were between 5-7!  Two boys and a girl asked me successive questions about my favorite foods, colors and animals, all while laughing uproariously at the whole experience!  “Dad”—or granddad?—was with them; he clearly recognized us.  Was he with the girls who did this same thing about a week ago? Or is his boy one of the kids Julia has scootered with before?  Clearly he told the boy to scooter with her tonight; he understood that she was making the rounds trying to scare up a race!

Henry and Mudge reading!
We had an energetic conversation among the 4 of us, and then Julia had a great 8 minute race-around.  That reminds me that I counted heads in the hallway today in Chinese (both Julia and I have mastered 1-10 this week, and once you can count to 10, you can count to 999; a simple and beautiful numbering system), much to the amusement and pleasure of the mothers/nannies.  They appreciated my effort and laughed at my terrible Chinese!  I did not laugh at the kids tonight.  And right in the middle of it, Jen, the girl who lives across the hall from us, and who has made an effort to say “Hello” to us in the hall about 3 times, came by with her grandmother, and called out “Hello”—I reached out to take her hand, and she flushed with pleasure.  It was so sweet!  She always says, “Hello, How are you? I am fine.”  --English practice!  We felt part of the neighborhood tonight.  Finished it off by stopping at our vegetable stand for half a watermelon, 6 apples, 4 bananas and a large handful of cherry tomatoes.  When I walked by last night, the vendor caught my eye and called out, Hello. What will she think when we don’t show up ever again after June 30th?!

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