On this last day of driving in the school van, Alex provided
a fry stick to share with Julia; don’t they look like happy chums?
The performances and graduation ceremonies were a smash
success today. 3 hours is a bit
long! But as is typical, parents were happy to sit for the long time in order
to see their darling children doing something amazing. While amazing is overstating it, there
were some nice bits and certainly plenty of opportunities for children to have
fun while on stage.
Julia also participated in the novice violin class, which
performed. She and I know that she
is faking it at the music stand!
But, who could tell under the circumstances?
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| The whole violin class |
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| Julia and Alex! |
Also, a few photos of my class (or what part of it which has
returned from sick leave!) practicing our songs in the classroom; they are so
solemn in their uniforms! We sang
“Open Shut me” which is short but full of action that they
love! And we sang “If
You’re Happy and You know it, clap your hands” which was so successful because
their faces were pure glee as they clapped and stamped and shouted hurray as
loudly as possible! A sure winner
with parents. The principal
reported many compliments; and it wasn’t missed on parents that they sat
politely for a good part of 2 ½ hours without disturbing the performances. When you think that they couldn’t
follow the English of most of what was presented, really, it was quite
notable! So, as everyone else
packs up and concludes the year, I think the assessment would be that paying to
bring a teacher from America was worth the money for the school.
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| The 3s and 4s, rehearsing before the performance - so serious and formal in their uniforms! |
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| And the class with Mia and Sabrina |
We had plans to go to the beach with Sunny and her cousing
Ryochi, who was in the 2
nd grade class also. As the morning event was breaking up,
Sunny’s mother, WeiWei mentioned that mothers were getting together for lunch;
we agreed to do that first. The
group was international, with a heavy sprinkling of Japanese mothers. We went to The Diner, where Julia and I
have been twice for western food; hamburgers were the plan today. We slowly arrived there—a group of 10
families, with 17 children! The
kids were wild, running all around the courtyard outside the restaurant, a good
place for all that activity. But
perhaps a restaurant was not!
Finally, a solution was devised to feed us all, and we were able to sit
the kids at a huge table with platters of burgers and fries, while the mothers
sat separately. One mother ordered
a ‘black beer’ from the home brewery;
I may have to go back to try that!
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| A long table-full of burger-eating children! |
I sat next to Shoko, the mother of Saskia, with whom Julia
had a play date two weeks ago. She
ordered a platter that came with a cube of sticky rice on top of which was a
lightly fried egg; it looked delicious together! It was funny to be part of a mothers’ group—just like a
middle class group of mothers anywhere! Talking about kids, trips and
vacations, shopping, and the school.
Clearly this was what WeiWei didn’t want to miss! But it did mean that
we missed the beach. The weather
turned, it got later, the kids were somewhat dispersed in their energy, and so, no beach.
We—the kids and I, while WeiWei stayed with a sleeping 3
year old and a few remaining mothers at the restaurant -- decided to walk up to
the amusement park area for a quick trip to the bouncy house. Imagine our surprise when we got there
to find
the entire group of rides
packed up and gone. Imagine if
that had happened on June 7, and we had arrived for the birthday party to find
it all gone! It was such a
disappointment, and inexplicable—with summer beginning, wouldn’t these rides
get increasing use? And they were
so cheap for the pleasure they gave; I had every intention of taking Julia to
the bouncy house 3 or 4 times in the next two weeks! Perhaps something will replace them.
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| The adventuring group |
On the walk back, we went through Kite Flying Park, where
this marvelous 5-kite kite was being flown. I love this park!
Shoko told me that Qingdao is the number one tourist site in China for
natives; people from all over China come here for vacation. We may be getting out just in time!
Apparently it is impossible to get a taxi in July and August!
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| The fabulous kite! |
I had the weird thought today that I couldn’t place in a
specific moment in time something that happened here in China; which made me
realize that we have had enough experiences that they are ‘blurring’ in terms
of time and order. China is our
default mode at the moment; how odd is that?!
It is hard to know exactly what the next two weeks will
bring; so many people will be gone, and Julia will have to come to school with
me every day. Will the adventure
end on a bit of a down note, with Julia restless and under-engaged with other
people? The cultural customs of
things like play dates are still not quite clear to me, so I don’t know whether
we will be able bridge that sufficiently to give Julia something fun to do
while I am teaching. There are
plans for Chinese lessons, which sounds exactly what a mother would love, but
maybe not an 8 year old!
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