Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Wednesday, May 16


More candy gifts at the bus stop today! Chocolate this time—I have wondered if the Chinese eat chocolate.  According to my sources, kids do universally!  and women.  Some things are understandable in any culture. 

Besides the candy, we also tried a mini melon today!

Julia took some photos along the morning drive route—while the stores around our neighborhood look a bit rough and not fancy at all, by the time we get to the edge of the center of town, shops are looking well kept, modern and tasteful.  

A neighborhood shop

A view of the street

Our familiar overpass

Our van-riding friend!

And yet, there is the water bottle delivery bike pedaling down the sidewalk among the high rises!  Everyone has a water dispenser in his or her house.  We got our first delivery yesterday.  The poor guy hauled two blue water bottles (you know what they look like) up the 4 stories, negotiated a deposit from me (80 yuan deposit, 15 yuan for each bottle of water.  That means, several galloons-10?-for $2.40.  wow), and left.  I had to boost the bottle into the dispenser!  Julia enjoyed that spectacle.  She noted that I put it in ‘backwards,’ meaning that I turned the words to the wall.  The world is a critic.

The water bottle bike - can you imagine riding with those??

Here is a glimpse into my classroom from today:





There was sun all day today, a welcome sight.  From the 4th floor windows of the school, the sea was a beautiful, sparkling sight.  The lighthouse was clearly in view, as was the Olympic Sailing Center and the bandstand awning, all across the bay.  Lots of flags flying, kites flying, people walking and boats sailing or motoring around.  A seaside is a dynamic place, very entertaining; this one is well inhabited. 

Our view, with some sunshine

Today we had a play date with Maci, much longed for.  Maci is in the second grade class, a few weeks younger than Julia.  Julia is taking ‘specials’ in the afternoon with the 2nd grade (art, music, gym) and academics in the mornings with the 3rd grade.  This was arranged because there were some personality issues in the 2nd grade and only one girl in the 3rd grade.  In practice, it has been an adequate but not perfect fit.  So, slowly Julia is shifting over to the 2nd grade; the move will be complete as of Friday, I think.  However, things are always more complicated than the simple story.  For, apparently, Maci has a best, inseparable pal in the 2nd grade, and they rule the roost there.  They are the two native speakers (remember, the native language is English in the school!), and they are both outgoing, outspoken girls.  So…if Julia thinks she is going to transfer into a friendship, she may find it a little sticky!  Why can’t we arrange things to be pleasant and simple for our children?  I remember when Elinor was a homeschooled five year old—she was the only girl her age among a handful of boys.  This didn’t bother her, but it was a factor as they aged up.  Why can’t there be a best friend just waiting for each kid at each stage?!

Anyway, a playdate—forestalled for half an hour by a parent who forgot to pick up her 3 year old (!)  The girls colored mosaic patterns I had provided for the 3s and 4s, and ate pretzels.  Then, the school van left without us.  What to do?  We decided to take a taxi.  Alas, next,  we had our first iffy taxi experience.   The driver read my community cue card that I carry around with me and said ‘yes.’  Then she headed in the right direction, only to make an unexpected turn.  While I can’t say where to go, I can identify when we’ve left the familiar path.  It is possible that the taxi driver was looking for a shortcut or a less traveled route, but instead we got into thick, standstill traffic, right by the sea.  Seems like an obvious place NOT to go to!  We twisted around and then got back onto the main, familiar road—only to turn off of it again!  What to do!  I felt both frustrated and amazingly helpless.  I expect the worst result would have been a huge overcharge, rather than being left on a dirt road in the middle of nowhere!  Still, I didn’t like the feeling.  Eventually, we wound back under our spider web highway, such a landmark feature of the route out toward our community (and over the mountain, as it is referred to).  So I knew we’d get home; however, it did cost 7 yuan more than the most expensive taxi ride to the community so far; and 10 yuan more than the standard ride.  Darn it!

Maci regaled us with stories of her family’s 30 birds (back in Utah), distracting Julia, at least, from any sense of worry.  She’s a friendly and pleasant person, so maybe all the worry about girl cliques will be for naught! 

The girls went straight for necklace making, surprising me! and later entered into that tried and true Thomas activity, Playmobile.  They are deep into setup as I write, eating pasta and being generally American.  I am happy to relinquish my spot as chief playmate for the afternoon.

Necklaces at the living room table

Playmobile!


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